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September can feel like a fresh start. Summer is winding down, school is back in session, and little signs of fall begin showing up everywhere. For many autistic people, though, September can also mean adjusting to a lot of new sensory experiences at once. The temperature changes. The days slowly become shorter. Different clothes come out of the closet. School becomes busier. Even the smells and sounds around us can feel different. These changes may seem small to someone else

Image credit: Freepik For families of autistic and neurodivergent children, the early years can bring so many emotions. There may be excitement, questions, uncertainty, and sometimes fear about what the future will look like. Parents may notice that their child communicates differently, experiences sensory input in their own way, or develops certain skills on a different timeline. It can be difficult to know where to begin, but seeking support early can open doors to learning

Image credit: Freepik Rethinking Behavior Support Matters Every autistic and neurodivergent child wants to feel safe, understood, and accepted. For autistic individuals, those needs are no different. Yet for many years, behavior support has often centered on correcting actions that adults viewed as challenging instead of understanding the reasons behind them. Today, more therapists, professionals, educators, and families are rethinking that mindset. Rather than asking, "How c

Image credit: Freepik Summertime Looks Different for Every Family When most people think about summertime, they picture carefree vacations, fun road trips, and long sunny days filled with adventure. And while that sounds wonderful, many families with autistic or neurodivergent loved ones know that summer can feel a little more complicated than that. I’ve come to realize that summertime isn’t always restful; It takes more energy than people expect here and there. Sometimes it

Image credit: Freepik In many states, including in Florida, August marks the beginning of a new school year. While some families are busy buying backpacks, labeling notebooks, and preparing lunch boxes, many autistic individuals and their families are preparing for something far more complicated: steeling themselves for transitions that require more than organization, but deep emotional strength and a brave heart to face the unknown. They are preparing for transition. And tra

For many autistic and neurodivergent children, moving from elementary school to middle school, or from middle school to high school, can feel like stepping into a giant new world. New teachers, bigger buildings, changing routines, and increased expectations can create excitement, but they can also bring anxiety. For autistic students, these transitions may feel even more giant due to the challenges that often accompany changes in routine and environment. The good news is that

Daniel Durany A dedicated, autistic advocacy adult, Daniel Durany is a 2006 graduate of Texas Christian University, where he earned a Bachelor of Science in Communication Studies, and a 2020 graduate of Texas A&M Commerce with a Master of Science in Accounting.. A passionate autism advocate, Daniel has dedicated much of his life to advancing autism awareness, acceptance, and advocacy. In 2013, he served on the Texas Council on Autism and PDD, helping shape initiatives that su

There's this thing that happens before the day fully arrives. The alarm hasn't gone off. Nobody needs anything from you yet. And then, without asking, without knocking: sunlight finds the gap in your curtains and lands somewhere on the bed, or the wall, or the back of your hand. And your whole body just… exhales. If you've built a small ritual around that moment; If you guard it like something precious good. You should. Not because some productivity article told you morning

Image credit: Freepik Have you ever sat in a conversation and felt the moment pass before your thoughts were ready? Someone asks a question, people laugh, decisions happen instantly, and your brain is still carefully connecting the dots. Many autistic people like myself know this feeling deeply. It can hurt. It can feel isolating. Sometimes it even makes you question your intelligence. But here’s something gentle and important to hear: needing more time does not mean you’re l

Graduation should feel like a victory. Caps fly, cameras flash, and families celebrate years of hard work. I experienced that nearly 10 years ago when I graduated from high school in New Jersey. It’s hard to believe how quickly time has passed; Those ten years truly flew by in what feels like the blink of an eye. Yet many parents of autistic students describe a quiet fear hiding behind the smiles. Something suddenly feels missing. The structured world that supported their chi

There is something undeniably urgent happening inside modern workplaces. Employees are no longer quietly tolerating systems that exhaust them. Conversations about burnout, inclusion, and psychological safety are no longer side discussions—they are front and center. For years, organizations approached workplace struggles by asking individuals to adapt, toughen up, or improve resilience. The urgent reality emerging in 2026 is that people were never failing work; work was failin

Image credit: Freepik Spring break is often imagined as a carefree escape—sunshine, travel, laughter, and a temporary break from responsibilities. For many families, it represents pure freedom. But for families navigating autism, spring break can carry a more complex emotional landscape. The excitement of new places and experiences is real, yet so is the uncertainty that comes when familiar routines disappear. Autistic individuals often rely on predictable patterns to feel se

Image Credit: Freepik Spring brings brighter days, longer evenings, and the promise of warmth—but for many autistic individuals, the shift of the clock jumping forward can feel like the world is moving too fast. That lost hour may seem small to some, but it can create deep, tangible struggles for autistic people, their families, educators, and professionals who support them daily. Sensory sensitivities, reliance on routines, and a need for predictability mean that even minor

Image credit: Freepik Something meaningful has shifted in 2026. We are no longer asking, “How do I make this stop?” when a meltdown erupts. We are asking, “What does this person need right now?” That question changes everything. It moves us away from control and toward connection. For years, big emotions were treated like problems to eliminate in homes, school, and community. Autistic and neurodivergent children were told to calm down. Adults were told to toughen up. But supp

Celebrating neurodiverse hearts in 2026 has been less about creating a slogan and more about noticing the real moments that make inclusive education meaningful. This year taught me that celebrating neurodiversity isn’t just a feel‑good idea—it’s a daily commitment to understanding how different brains experience the world, how emotions rise and settle, and how small steps can create big shifts. Every day brought something worth celebrating, even if it arrived quietly. Connect

As the world prepares to enter into 2026, chill New Year celebrations are evolving. While many people enjoy loud countdowns, fireworks, and crowded parties, these traditional festivities can be overwhelming for autistic individuals. Sensory overload, social pressure, and unpredictable environments often turn what should be a joyful moment into a stressful experience. This is why the idea of a New Year for autistic minds is becoming increasingly important in 2026. A chill New

Image credit: Freepik Winter break often brings a mix of emotions for families with autistic children. There’s excitement, hope, and love—along with sensory overload, unpredictability, and moments where everything feels like too much. It’s okay to hold both. And it’s in those in-between spaces that wonder often appears, gentle and unexpected. When Winter Feels “Too Much” For many autistic children, winter is filled with triggers—bright flashing lights, busy stores, new smells

The holidays in December are meant to sparkle with joy, laughter, and togetherness. Yet for families with children on the autism spectrum, the season can quickly turn from magical to overwhelming. Lights flash, schedules shift, and noise fills the air — all of which can disrupt the sense of peace autistic individuals crave. This year, let’s choose calm over chaos, mindfulness over mayhem, and create holidays that honor both celebration and serenity, no matter what holiday you

December can feel long, cold, and dark. But for many people in the neurodiverse community, it’s also a month full of small, beautiful lights—lights that don’t just come from lamps or decorations, but from moments of calm, connection, and joy. In 2025, more people are understanding that this season can be more than overwhelming—it can be illuminating in ways that matter deeply. Why Light Feels Special in December Darkness That Highlights the Glow When the days are short and ni

Image credit: Freepik Halloween is a time filled with excitement, costumes, candy, and spooky fun—but for autistic children, it can also be a whirlwind of overwhelming sensations. Bright lights, loud noises, crowded streets, and unexpected surprises can turn what should be an enjoyable experience into something stressful. However, with thoughtful planning, understanding, and creativity, Halloween in 2025 can be transformed into an enjoyable celebration for every child, regard